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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Top 5 Movies For Parents

 I love movies.  I love movie theaters, it is the only place I can truly say that I like popcorn.  I love movies almost as much I love TV and that's pretty huge.  Comedies, action thrillers, dramas, tear-jerkers, Indie, big-budget, artsy, goof-ball....I love all movie genres (I even went through a brief horror movie phase).

Even though I enjoy all movies, I was never one of those people that went to kid movies before I had kids.  Well, okay, I saw Lion King in the theater a million years before I had my own kids and I had to sit through Macaulay Culkin in The Little Rascals with my little brother.

Now my life is dominated by kid movies.  And it's not a terrible thing.  As we parents know, most "kid movies" have a lot of good lessons for grown ups.  In fact, many a kid movie has made me not just a better person, but a better parent.

In honor of Oscar Week, I thought it would be fun to list the top five movies I think every new parent should watch and watch again as their kids get older. 
This post is part of my partnership with Mommy Bear Media, a great place to find and order family friendly movies.

Here are the top five must-watch parenting "kid" movies in no particular order:


Finding Nemo
Duh, right?  I mean the whole idea of holding our kids a little too tight out of fear of the unknown gets me every time.  There have been times when I sound exactly like Marlin the fish as he told his kid fish Nemo he couldn't do things because of his bum fin.  I call them my "Nemo Moments."  

My famous Nemo moment actually inspired the name of my blog--Jumping With My Fingers Crossed. A few years ago, Lucy was was standing on top of a very high playground structure.  I told her she better not jump and that it wasn't safe, she might get hurt.  She replied "I might not."  And with that she closed her eyes, crossed her fingers and jumped.  After sticking her landing she turned to me and said "see, told ya."

My favorite character from the movie is Crush the turtle.  He is so chill and I love him.  I think all parents could learn from Crush.  Learn to relax and let their kids find their own way, make their own mistakes and as Crush says "koo-koo-cachoo find their way back."
I re-watch this one a lot.



Mrs. Doubtfire
This is an oldie, but a goodie.  Maybe this movie hits home because I grew up with divorced parents.  But the movie is about more than divorce, it's about being silly and being present.  We recently watched this movie as a family.  While my kids were laughing at Robin Williams dressed up like a woman, sticking his face in a cake and shouting "Hellllooo!," I was being reminded a very important lesson.  A lesson about the importance of playing with my kids, connecting with them and being there for them.  





Secretariat
Oh this movie is for all mothers who might have gotten a little lost in the whole business of motherhood.  This movie is a reminder of the power of a dream and being steadfast.  It is a reminder of how mothers can be compassionate caretakers and brave powerful women taking on the whole world.  It's about leading, teaching, mothering by example.  And it has horses, it's good.











Beezus and Ramona
I adored these books by Beverly Cleary growing up, so I was skeptical about what the movie would be like.  While the movie is different, it is also so good.  The movie is one of the truly G-rated movies out there.  There are absolutely no bad words or over-your-head-you-dumb-little-kid jokes.  The movie is about a pretty cute family facing some pretty big but true-to-life problems.  For example, the dad loses his job, their car doesn't start, they have to put their house up for sale, etc.  But through it all, they remain hopeful.  The movie highlights how letting go of stress for both dad and daughter can be as simple as rolling out paper across the floor and drawing the "longest picture in the world."  It's simple.

They may not have a huge house or the the best jobs, but they are together and they love each other.  Awwww.  Really so sweet.  "We are movie magic," I told my kids.  "We are living the life of this sweet movie, we are living the happy ending."  We don't have the biggest, nicest house, or the best jobs, or the biggest, best anything.  But we do have so much love.  It's simple.



Toy Story 3
This movie is harder to watch the older my kids get.  Lesson here we all know is, oh man it goes fast.  Play and enjoy every moment.  It's almost too much to write about right?  I mean the scene where Andy leaves for college...sniffle...and goes to the little girl's house...sniffle, sob, sniffle...and plays with his toys...too much!!!!!







What's on your list?  What are your Nemo moments?  You have them right?  We all have them, I hope it's not just me.  

Take a look at Mommy Bear Media--they have a wide variety of older movies and the best new movies on DVD for the whole family. And they offer free 2-5 day shipping on all orders.  In addition to their website, you can follow up with them on Facebook and Twitter as well. 


Thursday, December 20, 2012

Preach Marmee Preach-A New Review of An Old Movie


Humor, kindness and moral courage, these are the things I cherish most about you.

I so wish I could give my girls a just world, but I know you will make it a better place.
-Marmee in Little Women, 1994

Every Christmas, we bust out some pretty sweet traditions.  They aren't too fancy, but the kids seem happy.  They make us all happy.  I am big on traditions. Traditions are good, they are solid, safe and reassuring, and fun.  
Lucy and Peyton lighting the candles at our Sunday Advent dinners is a treat for them.

One of our traditions is an Advent Calendar, like a lot of people.  


But ours isn't filled with candy or gifts, it's filled with what the kids call "fortunes"--notes like in a fortune cookie.  Each note has a special activity or event such as "Family Game Night" or "Stay Up An Hour Past Bedtime."  


We try to include as much one-on-one time with each child as possible in the "fortunes," because let's face it one-on-one time is pretty much a Christmas miracle in this busy, hectic household.

"I know my time with mom will be shopping," Lucy announced one day before reaching into the calendar pocket.  I asked her why she thought that and she replied "because that's what moms and daughters do, shop."

I almost spit out my drink.  You see, I'm not a shopper.  My kids have only been to a mall a handful of times and they act like it's a museum, all strange and new and fascinating.  

There's nothing wrong with shopping, but I simply don't want my only daughter to think that's the only way we can bond.  I don't want shopping to be our core commonality, our identity as female reps in this house where testosterone reigns.

Marmee to the rescue.


One of our other special traditions during the holidays is watching movies.

When my daughter Lucy was little she would snuggle on the couch with me and watch one of my holiday favorites, Little Women The 1994 Susan Sarandon/Winona Ryder version.  


Of course, many years she would fall asleep next to me or spend part of the moving coloring or playing quietly.

This year however she came to the couch to really watch.  She had questions and was appalled that Jo wasn't going to college when Laurie did.

We talked about how women couldn't vote or own property.  We talked about the clothes they had to wear in the 1860s and how they had to sometimes hide their true personality in front of boys and men and society...how they had to be proper ladies.

Winona Ryder as Jo reminded me of my little Lucy, crinkling her nose, stomping her feet, loving large and fighting big.  

Susan Sarandon's take on the character of Mrs. March, or Marmee as her daughters call her, was nothing short of inspiration.  A feminist/political power with tenderness and love who had some really great quotes.  I found myself nodding saying "preach Marmee, preach."

Go, and embrace your liberty.  And see what wonderful things come of it.
-That amazing Marmee again

Halfway during the movie my boys wandered into the room and reluctantly sat down and started watching the movie.

In true Jo fashion, Lucy crinkled her nose and said, "What are the boys doing here?"

But she quickly forgot being annoyed when Beth got sick. Worried about Beth, everyone became invested in the movie.  

Little Women wasn't just a mother/daughter movie, but a whole family movie.  Even my husband sat down and was surprised by the actor who plays Laurie.  "Is that Batman?" he asked.  Yup, that's Christian Bale.

The whole family watched--we enjoyed a movie about women and identity; we discussed history, including how lucky we are to live in a time with good medicine and no Civil War and more equal rights.  Turns out, I not only want my daughter to know that women do more than shop, I want my sons to know that too.

The movie was about a family holding onto each other, and their ideals, loving each other in an uncertain time. Um, yeah, I can relate.
And that's what makes it timeless and a definite holiday classic.

What holiday movies are on your must-watch list?  

This movie review was done for Mommy Bear Media where you can purchase Little Women and a slew of other family friendly movies.

Take a look at Mommy Bear Media--they have a wide variety of older movies and the best new movies on DVD for the whole family. And they offer free 2-5 day shipping on all orders.  In addition to their website, you can follow up with them on Facebook and Twitter as well. 

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Win A Wii U from MommyBear Media

I don't know much, but I do know that on each of my children's Christmas lists this year is some sort of electronic device.  It would even be on the 3-year-old's if he could write, I am sure of it.

If your children have a gaming system of some sort on their list here's a chance to win one: A Wii U Nintendo.

This giveaway is brought to you by Mommy Bear Media, a wonderful site for family friendly entertainment (that I also happen to write reviews for from time to time). Check out the giveaway details and enter in the Rafflecopter form below.  It's super easy and think of your child's smiling face if you win.


We have an exciting Giveaway for you! Just in time for the holidays. We are giving away a Wii U Nintendo gaming system. With the Wii U you can play games while experiencing up to full 1080p HD for the first-time ever on a Nintendo gaming console. And of course, you can interact and share with your friends, family, and the world! The Wii U Game Pad, which connects wirelessly, can also be used as the remote control for your TV.  


The Wii U Nintendo Gaming System- New For 2012!



Mommy Bear Media has teamed up with several bloggers to bring you this fabulous prize. 2012 has been a year that we grew to love and respect bloggers, new customers, and social media. Through social media we have met many of you and we do know that many of you have purchased family friendly movies through us, and we thank you!

Mommy Bear Media is branching out- we will be bringing you family friendly video games in the very, very near future! You will want to stay tuned for this. Mommy Bear Media offers family themed entertainment to everyone in your family. Mommy Bear Media continues to educate and keep parents informed in regards to good, clean, family entertainment. This is sure to be one of the hottest items this holiday season! 

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